The "Fuck my life" thread

[Dtrain323i]

[quote author=Eightball link=topic=3709.msg270746#msg270746 date=1376849035]
There was a death in my family yesterday. Police are involved, and I need some advice on how to proceed. I wish I could be more forthcoming with details, but this is a public forum and this is a legal matter. If anyone seasoned is willing to lend advice, I can be contacted by phone at 6087721168. Sorry for brevity. Scar is not the deceased individual. I'm desperate for ideas, hence the cry for help. If you can offer advice or counsel please call or text me. Thanks.

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I'm sorry to hear about your loss.

I am not a lawyer and it sounds like you should get one posthaste.

Remember that you are under no obligation to speak with the police. Don't say anything to the police without a lawyer. ANYTHING. If you are detained, assert your right to a lawyer.

All the best.
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Pretty much what pie said. If the police ask to talk to you, politely yet firmly tell them that you want to cooperate but you wish to consult with legal counsel first. Any statements you make should be through the attorney.

[CaffeinePowered]

Keep strong man, and you'll get through it. Talking about it with close friends/family helps a lot, just let your feelings out the best way through things like this is surrounding yourself with caring individuals and time.

[Eightball]

*removed for discretionary reasons*

Med school starts tomorrow for me. Hope I can focus.

[kaese]

I am really sorry for your loss, Eightball. If you need someone to talk to and listen to you, I'll be around Madison!

[KarthXLR]

That's horrible Eightball. We're all here if you want to talk to anyone.

[Gasman]

That is just horrible, Eightball. I sincerely wish the best for you and your family.

[Chief]

fuck man.

fuuuuuuuuck.
fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck.

[Hobospartan]

...and I showed up to bitch about getting called in on my day off, and called in early the next day....


I'm so sorry  for your loss, Eightball, and I hope you and your family can work through this horrible loss together.  Like Caff said, stick with the people closest to you, and for the love of God don't bottle it up.

[rumbot]

holy fuck. I'm so fucking sorry, 8ball.

[Surf314]

Really sorry to hear that Eightball. Losing your father is already bad enough, but the circumstances are terrible.

[Serain]

I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you guys pull through.

[Coelit]

I'm sorry Eightball. Be strong man.

[Chooly]

My condolences,

And I only hope that you can find some relief with your friends and family in what will be a long, very trying time of your life.
Be strong

[k0ala]

My condolences,

And I only hope that you can find some relief with your friends and family in what will be a long, very trying time of your life.
Be strong

[TronPaul]

My condolences,

And I only hope that you can find some relief with your friends and family in what will be a long, very trying time of your life.
Be strong

You're a great guy and we're here if you need us. If you're having problems with your studies be sure to talk to your school. I'm sure they'll work with you to make sure you're given the time you need.

[Cineo]

My Condolences to you and your family Eightball. I'm sorry for your loss.

[loldollas]

Parroting what others have said, my condolences, Eightball. I can't imagine what you are going through but you are a strong person!

[VeraLapsa]

If there was something that ever fit this thread this is it.

I hope that the fucking policeman goes to jail for what he's done.
Trigger happy cops shouldn't be on the force in the first place.

If I were you, go to your school's counseling and talk to them. There's no shame in talking to someone about your feelings especially if it's confidential.

All my wishes go out to you and your family during this hard time. Please stay safe and we are always here to talk.

[Neptune]

This is probably the worst thing I've ever heard.  It shouldn't have happened to your family, but I guess bad things happen to good people.  I'm not sure what I would do if this happened to me.  Given your ability to think rationally, you're stronger than I.

Go get those rotten cops.  I hope to hear about it on the news.

[Evil Cheese]

Fuck man that's terrible. I'm at a loss for words. My condolences for you loss. Death is hard enough, but those circumstances are extra shitty. I hope justice is served and I wish you and your family the best.