The "Fuck my life" thread

[Surf314]

One day overdue, still no leasing info and my boss doesn't want me to send out my otherwise complete report. Client is calling and none of the last people I have to ask for info are in the office. Oh and apparently I already called one of them and the chick was p rude to me about it.

For those keeping score I am at 0 for 3 for enough lease data to complete an Income section of an appraisal (one that is not required if you have good reason and the client even specifically asked for only one approach which I've already done).
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God wouldn't that suck if he read this?

[KorJax]

[quote author=KorJax link=topic=3709.msg138774#msg138774 date=1267375302]
Best friend I've gotten to know and chat with often for about a year who lives two states over decided to never come online MSN for over a week, I text/email him a few times asking what is up and he says he basically doesn't want to talk to me anymore for whatever fucking reason and wants to "break away".

What the fuck?? Goddamn I feel horrible, I don't even understand how I can lose a best friend out of the blue like that.  What the fuck... wtf...

Did he actually give a reason or is he being vague?

The best you can do is write a heartfelt message, or better a real letter, and see if he responds to that. If he doesn't, then I hate to break it to you but it doesn't sound like he is being a good friend to you. Don't chase relationships where the other side doesn't reciprocate.
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He was very vauge about it.  I tried sending him an email back but haven't gotten a response yet.

It's not as simple as just going "oh well lol moving on" to me considering we have just about everything in common, I've told him just about everything on myself just as he to me, I've helped him through some really fucked up shit and everything.  To just forget about him and say he's a bad friend would be like doing the same to what makes up who I am.  Which is why it hurts as much as it does..  :-\

Not being able to chat about the day and talk to him really fucking sucks, we understood each other more than anyone else did for us.  Makes me feel completely alone even though I have other people I can talk to, but just feels now as if everyone else doesn't matter anymore in my head or something.

[CaffeinePowered]

[quote author=rumsfald link=topic=3709.msg138832#msg138832 date=1267401551]
[quote author=KorJax link=topic=3709.msg138774#msg138774 date=1267375302]
Best friend I've gotten to know and chat with often for about a year who lives two states over decided to never come online MSN for over a week, I text/email him a few times asking what is up and he says he basically doesn't want to talk to me anymore for whatever fucking reason and wants to "break away".

What the fuck?? Goddamn I feel horrible, I don't even understand how I can lose a best friend out of the blue like that.  What the fuck... wtf...

Did he actually give a reason or is he being vague?

The best you can do is write a heartfelt message, or better a real letter, and see if he responds to that. If he doesn't, then I hate to break it to you but it doesn't sound like he is being a good friend to you. Don't chase relationships where the other side doesn't reciprocate.
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He was very vauge about it.  I tried sending him an email back but haven't gotten a response yet.

It's not as simple as just going "oh well lol moving on" to me considering we have just about everything in common, I've told him just about everything on myself just as he to me, I've helped him through some really fucked up shit and everything.  To just forget about him and say he's a bad friend would be like doing the same to what makes up who I am.  Which is why it hurts as much as it does..  :-\

Not being able to chat about the day and talk to him really fucking sucks, we understood each other more than anyone else did for us.  Makes me feel completely alone even though I have other people I can talk to, but just feels now as if everyone else doesn't matter anymore in my head or something.
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That really sucks dude, but I agree with what Rummy said, there also might be other extenuating circumstances outside of either of your control that he just might not want to talk about. If you have an address, send a real letter, if you get nothing back, move on, it hurts but it hurts more to dwell on it than to go on to the next thing.

[rumsfald]

I've helped him through some really fucked up shit and everything. 

Even more reason he should level with you and not be vague at this point. His inability to level with you at this point is not a good sign. By all means you can and should be patient with him as he goes through this time of trouble. But at some point, for you, you might need to say enough is enough and move on. I'd encourage you to be as clear and upfront with him about your feelings as you have been here with us. If that doesn't get through to him, then I would doubt if he feels the same about you.

[Turtle]

I had to reformat my computer and haven't been on for a while (no idea why, probably a virus)

But it's good to be back

[If-I-Die-Its-Lag]

I had to reformat my computer and haven't been on for a while (no idea why, probably a virus)

But it's good to be back

Wrong thread.

[Coppanuva]

But it's good to be back

[at0m]

Oh god, the irony. If it were on purpose, it would be on par with something rummy would pull off, but I seriously doubt that it is.

[copulatingduck]

...it's just a concept



wooooow, what a cocktease

[Dtrain323i]

...it's just a concept



wooooow, what a cocktease

iCame

[A. Crow]

So I get a text from a girl I slept with a couple times last month, "What would you do if you got someone pregnant?" 

Now, after damn near having a heart attack, I stop and think, no way do I beat those kind of odds.  So, I tell her this is a horrible way to get attention. 

"I'm writing a research paper, Jerk." 

kinda FML, kinda LOL. 

[Dtrain323i]

So I get a text from a girl I slept with a couple times last month, "What would you do if you got someone pregnant?" 

Now, after damn near having a heart attack, I stop and think, no way do I beat those kind of odds.  So, I tell her this is a horrible way to get attention. 

"I'm writing a research paper, Jerk." 

kinda FML, kinda LOL.   

tell her you'd kick her down the stairs.

[beep beep diglett]

[quote author=LT Crow link=topic=3709.msg139120#msg139120 date=1267554327]
So I get a text from a girl I slept with a couple times last month, "What would you do if you got someone pregnant?" 

Now, after damn near having a heart attack, I stop and think, no way do I beat those kind of odds.  So, I tell her this is a horrible way to get attention. 

"I'm writing a research paper, Jerk." 

kinda FML, kinda LOL.   

tell her you'd kick her down the stairs.
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totally leaching off of buckley's bandwith

[CaffeinePowered]

[quote author=LT Crow link=topic=3709.msg139120#msg139120 date=1267554327]
So I get a text from a girl I slept with a couple times last month, "What would you do if you got someone pregnant?" 

Now, after damn near having a heart attack, I stop and think, no way do I beat those kind of odds.  So, I tell her this is a horrible way to get attention. 

"I'm writing a research paper, Jerk." 

kinda FML, kinda LOL.   

tell her you'd kick her down the stairs.
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You should have sent back a picture of a wire coat hanger

[Surf314]

My dad is so computer inept. Teaching him how to use the context menu when you right click and strikethrough over the phone and it is taking longer than it should.

[copulatingduck]

pretty sure i have strep. that would mean that since the age of 7, I've had strep 15/17 years (I've got pretty terrible luck with it)

going to a doctor and just hoping the bill isn't too much, I'm going on vacation soon and the last thing I want to worry about on vacation is getting friends sick while I go to the doctor

[A. Crow]

Omg, soils classification.  So damn boring.

[Surf314]

Omg, soils classification.  So damn boring.

What is the best soil to park artillery on?

[HeK]

My $75 chest freezer died after four months.
Last time I buy a used freezer made by 'General Freezer', $75 or not.

[A. Crow]

[quote author=LT Crow link=topic=3709.msg139307#msg139307 date=1267632969]
Omg, soils classification.  So damn boring.

What is the best soil to park artillery on?
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No, basically how to tell if it's going to suck to build on, and how to make it not suck.