Eightball Booze Makes Me Gay Posts: 1,557 Joined: Mar 2009 |
06-22-2010, 10:57 PM
Girlfriend broke up with me.
I should probably be a nervous wreck right now. Maybe it'll come later. EDIT: Holy shit, it just about happened on the second anniversary of our relationship. Hoo.
(This post was last modified: 06-22-2010, 11:15 PM by Eightball.)
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Vlambo BRB, Posting Posts: 1,175 Joined: Nov 2008 |
06-22-2010, 11:18 PM
(06-22-2010, 10:57 PM)Eightball link Wrote: Girlfriend broke up with me. Goddamn Map why do you have no textures. Goddamn health pack why are you not there. Look at this tree, fuck this cardboard tree |
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A. Crow Surprise Whopper Posts: 4,091 Joined: May 2008 |
06-22-2010, 11:27 PM
(06-22-2010, 11:18 PM)Vlambo link Wrote: [quote author=Eightball link=topic=3709.msg160001#msg160001 date=1277265464] Goddamn Map why do you have no textures. Goddamn health pack why are you not there. Look at this tree, fuck this cardboard tree [/quote] Oh, if you're not feeling it now, it's coming later. You poor bastard. |
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Tricks BRB, Posting Posts: 945 Joined: Dec 2009 |
06-22-2010, 11:29 PM
(06-22-2010, 10:57 PM)Eightball link Wrote: Girlfriend broke up with me. eh, meet up in a few years after med school, she will realize she made a huge mistake. I'm sorry man :/ |
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Vlambo BRB, Posting Posts: 1,175 Joined: Nov 2008 |
06-22-2010, 11:29 PM
I would love to give you some soothing words to calm your nerves, but I just can't relate. I've been in two serious relationships that ended by her, and I never once felt sad about it. Even when they did it, I was at most a tad angry. I think I'm a robot guys.
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Eightball Booze Makes Me Gay Posts: 1,557 Joined: Mar 2009 |
06-22-2010, 11:45 PM
(06-22-2010, 11:29 PM)Vlambo link Wrote: I would love to give you some soothing words to calm your nerves, but I just can't relate. I've been in two serious relationships that ended by her, and I never once felt sad about it. Even when they did it, I was at most a tad angry. I think I'm a robot guys.It's cool. Hearing anything helps; keeps me anchored. I'm pretty sure I'll be ok, I just need some time to get over it. In all honesty, when I put things in the proper perspective I don't have it so bad. Just spoke with her, there aren't any hard feelings, and we both agreed that this is best for us. Such is the fate of many distance relationships. I feel a lot for Korjax now instead. And thanks for your words. They really mean a lot. |
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06-22-2010, 11:56 PM
When my gf of 2 years and i split up last summer, i wasn't really feeling shitty till october, but by november it blew over...I dunno man, I kinda realized she was a weirdo bitch.
I'd say avoid relationships till you're like 25-27 |
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Radio Raheem BRB, Posting Posts: 1,306 Joined: Aug 2008 |
06-23-2010, 01:26 AM
i hear that man. everyone says im wierd for not really wanting in any kind of a relationship but honestly theyre nothing but trouble atleast when youre both young and neither of you knows what they want. theyre the only things that have ever really bothered me for more than like an hour
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PyroZombie BRB, Posting Posts: 1,032 Joined: Feb 2010 |
06-23-2010, 01:51 AM
Today, I was reminded of a event in my life that just won't end. I've tried for years to forget or get passed but it keeps coming back. My one friend's advice to get closure I think is the best way of doing things, but I'm afraid of what it will bring. Will I truly be free from this moment or will I just go in deeper? I really can't contest what I will do, if I'm put back in that situation. Should I stay away if I'm trying to make this die?
Blue Crew.....I got nothing flashy set up. |
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Didzo Uninstalling Posts: 5,206 Joined: Dec 2009 |
06-23-2010, 02:16 AM
(06-23-2010, 01:51 AM)PyroZombie link Wrote: Today, I was reminded of a event in my life that just won't end. I've tried for years to forget or get passed but it keeps coming back. My one friend's advice to get closure I think is the best way of doing things, but I'm afraid of what it will bring. Will I truly be free from this moment or will I just go in deeper? I really can't contest what I will do, if I'm put back in that situation. Should I stay away if I'm trying to make this die? If you don't trust yourself to be able to keep yourself from spiraling into a mental shitstorm, keep the hell away. Or maybe you just need to confront the situation head on and build that computer on your own. .... Wait, what thread is this? |
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Versus My fursona is a blops attack dog Posts: 10,103 Joined: Mar 2008 |
06-23-2010, 06:28 AM
raped
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CaffeinePowered Mad Hatter Posts: 12,998 Joined: Mar 2008 |
06-23-2010, 07:21 AM
(06-22-2010, 11:45 PM)Eightball link Wrote: [quote author=Vlambo link=topic=3709.msg160012#msg160012 date=1277267381]It's cool. Hearing anything helps; keeps me anchored. I'm pretty sure I'll be ok, I just need some time to get over it. In all honesty, when I put things in the proper perspective I don't have it so bad. Just spoke with her, there aren't any hard feelings, and we both agreed that this is best for us. Such is the fate of many distance relationships. I feel a lot for Korjax now instead. And thanks for your words. They really mean a lot. [/quote] We had two words to describe long distance relationships freshman year of college, 'thanksgiving break-ups' and 'spring break-ups'. Just look around you at Northwestern, there's plenty of people that are around, or as I suggested to KorJax try OKCupid, god I wish I had known about that site in college. While any break-up can be bad, instead of feeling bad about it, just ask yourself realistically do you think it could or rather, should, have continued. If you answer 'no' to that then pick up, move on, and start chasing local poon. :-*  Sig by Joel |
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Luinbariel Snailcat ..@:3 Posts: 4,520 Joined: Jun 2008 |
06-23-2010, 10:33 AM
Aww that sucks Eightball... but I think you'll be alright, like you said. Just take the time, feel whatever you think you want to, and then move on. Lame advice, but still.
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Didzo Uninstalling Posts: 5,206 Joined: Dec 2009 |
06-23-2010, 02:03 PM
So, it looks like it'll be the 2 classes for the credit of one option for me. Physics 5 days a week, for pretty much the rest of summer.
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KorJax BRB, Posting Posts: 1,376 Joined: Jun 2008 |
06-23-2010, 04:31 PM
Eightball we'll be single bros together :'(
I've stopped talking to my ex. He's just acting like a massive douchebag. I.E: saying "I don't HAVE to do anything" when I told him that he had a lot of nerve to just run off to virginia for the summer right after breaking up with me. Then I said "Sure you don't, but your actions speak louder than words" in which he replies " Alright have a nice life " I can only guess his "me-centered" attitude stems from a personal immaturity he has, which he was hiding from me and other people since day 1 (I just thought he was shy in an honest way, not in a dishonest way) but then he decided to let it show at the last minute here. I shouldn't trust and put effort into cross country runner nerds ever again :-X |
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Geoff Real World Azn Posts: 3,921 Joined: Apr 2008 |
06-23-2010, 04:38 PM
(06-23-2010, 04:31 PM)KorJax link Wrote: Eightball we'll be single bros together :'( dude...... i dont want to take any sides but it just sounds like he just wants to be left alone if you really think hes a dick then you made the right move by stopping talking to him (10-06-2011, 04:24 AM)Vandamguy link Wrote:just ignore everything Geoff posts its always trolling or ignorant drivel |
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KorJax BRB, Posting Posts: 1,376 Joined: Jun 2008 |
06-23-2010, 05:14 PM
I know that, and that is fair. And I honestly felt similar feelings at times myself. My problem is that if he wasn't a dick about the whole situation and if he'd properly communicate himself like I have to him then we could have broken up on good terms and found the experience fulfilling (which is something that I have done successfully with a previous relationship and tried to do the same for him).
But I guess his idea of friendships and relationships are still stuck with a middle school mentality. And he would rather ignore and/or don a childish "Haha! Sticks and stones can break my bones but words will never hurt me! " attitude vs being rational. Anyways I'm over with thinking about him. I'm not going to let his perspective twoards life and his friends get in the way of actually doing the things that he has done which I desired to experience and the things I wanted to experience with him.
(This post was last modified: 06-23-2010, 05:17 PM by KorJax.)
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Kirby Uninstalling Posts: 3,853 Joined: Jun 2009 |
06-23-2010, 05:50 PM
I left my marker lights on in my car @ lunch break by mistake cause I really really wanted to eat my pizza, and @ the end of the day when I get out of work, the AAA driver hooked her jumper pack up to my car wrong and blew up the following electronics:
PRO-106 39,000-Channel Digital Handheld Scanner - $400 Valentine One Radar Detector - $400 Kenwood KDC-MP345U Head Unit - $~170 !@#$ Now I have to deal with all sorts of nice bullshit. Not exactly heartbreaking, but still had to poast it.. Fuses do not help electronics when the initial voltage spike from a backwards feed is coming from the opposite end of the circuit as the fuses... |
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Dtrain323i Oprah Winfrey Posts: 3,067 Joined: Nov 2009 |
06-23-2010, 05:51 PM
(06-23-2010, 05:50 PM)Kirby, the AxeHammer Zealot link Wrote: I left my marker lights on in my car @ lunch break by mistake cause I really really wanted to eat my pizza, and @ the end of the day when I get out of work, the AAA driver hooked her jumper pack up to my car wrong and blew up the following electronics: This is why women belong in the kitchen. 11:35 Socks Greatbacon_work: Just accept the idea of enemas. |
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Kirby Uninstalling Posts: 3,853 Joined: Jun 2009 |
06-23-2010, 05:52 PM
(06-23-2010, 05:51 PM)Dtrain323i link Wrote: [quote author=Kirby, the AxeHammer Zealot link=topic=3709.msg160190#msg160190 date=1277333456] This is why women belong in the kitchen. [/quote] It's not even a BMW either. I could understand hooking it up backwards if it were a BMW, but it's not, it's a fucking Honda Civic. |
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